What Linus Really Needed

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I never really contemplated Linus much until I read Dr. Wilkoff's book Is My Child Overtired? in which he explains this little boy in details that ring very true to my "mommy instincts." It's pretty simple really: He needs a nap.

In fact, if we parents aren't careful with how our little ones are allowed to use their blankies or other security objects, they could end up like Linus: napless too soon. Here's how Dr. Wilkoff recommends security objects should be used:

-It lives in the bed. When a child wants his security object, it is usually a sign that he is tired and needs to rest. If the object lives in the bed, he will form the association between that tired I-want-my-blankie feeling and his bed, where he sleeps.



-He can have it whenever he wants. So if he got hurt or disappointed and wants the comfort, it's still available. He's just got to hang out on his bed for a while.

-Take it with you when you expect him to sleep away from home. A long car ride or overnight at Grandma's are great exceptions to the "it lives in the bed" rule.

-Take it with you to traumatic places. If your baby needs to have a shot, it's not a bad idea to bring along the comforting blankie, but keep it hidden away in his diaper bag until he needs it.

When kids are allowed to carry their security objects everywhere with them, they are likely to give up their naps early. The child's desire for his security object is a sign for parents that their child is tired. It's also a great tool in meeting your child's sleep need.

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Is My Child Overtired?: The Sleep Solution for Raising Happier, Healthier Children